Alonso and I are sitting in a food court in an open air mall with our laptops. Sylvia took their kids for swimming lessons here and now they've walked to the other side to pick up some things from the grocery store.
I'm working on staying awake and Alonso admits he, too, feels exhausted. I'm hoping for a nap before this evening's sessions. We've talked about how last night went and will make a few small adjustments, but for the most part we're pleased with the progress.
I've only been here two days - not even that - but I can already see some of the cultural differences between Tico culture (that's the term they use for a Costa Rican) and gringo culture. And those I've noticed so far I like.
They are very expressive. When they greet each other there's obvious joy and it almost always involves touching. The women often "kiss" by touching cheeks, and the men often hug. During conversation they'll reach out and touch your shoulder or place a hand on your arm to emphasize what's being said. They're also what Seinfeld called close-talkers. I like that, or at least the touching part, and I found myself wondering why we're so sterile. I would find it very easy to be more Tico in this regard. I often find myself wishing I could express a feeling of connection, or compassion, or deep intent with touch.
Are gringos too suspicious, too quick to read some double entendre into touch, into a hug? Or just too European? Whatever the basis, I wish we could get over it.
They love to eat, and so far everything I've had has been very good. The food isn't spicy like Mexican dishes, but very flavorful. They use lots of cilantro and garlic. Today I had a plantain for the first time, and at breakfast I was surprised how well rice and beans (with spices) pairs with a fried egg. I've had lots of other things too, all equally good but with names I can't begin to remember or pronounce correctly.
Everyone here has been very gracious and friendly. (The people are the best part.) Juan & Lori, my hosts, and Pastor Alonso & Sylvia lead that list. Alonso and I are having a great time talking theology each morning.
I miss mi espousa!
I've thought back today on the developments of the last 24 hours, especially the sale of the house. I'm still a little overwhelmed by the way that all went down.
The above was written yesterday afternoon, before the evening sessions. I figured to post it last night when I got back to my hosts' house but their internet wasn't cooperating. I tried everything, including carrying my laptop around a dark house to find a spot that worked, all w/o success. I eventually gave up, collapsed into bed, and slept like a dead man. I'm pleased with how things are going, but at the rate I'm burning through my energy I'm not sure how I make it another 10 days. Uff-dah.
For now, a shower, breakfast, and back to the books.
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